H4C - First of all, I guess this is an opportunity to act as-if but I wouldn't have any expectation that this is going to be a conversation about working the M issues out but instead a conversation about being amicable and trying to get through all of this in a sane and friendly way. That's my take. My wife has said the same to me. "We've been best friends for 20 years, I don't want to lose that friendship. I don't want our D to get in the way of that."

I hate the doom and gloom of all of this but in too many instances W starts off with a "teaser" comment only to reveal that her intentions have not changed one iota.


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Me: 39/W: 37
D13-D11-S8
M/T 14/20

EA confirmed: 9/13/07
D-Bomb: 9/19/07
OM Gone since 12/18/07
W wants to fix marriage: 3/16/07