I didn't respond to that text, but I did send him one late in the evening. I needed to know where he put the extra paint for the baby's room. I need to do some touchups. He told me where it was and offered to do it unless I already had someone to do it....not sure if that was a dig. I said I will.
I must have been feeling bad last night. My kids were watching the baby move and I got sorta sad that he wasn't there to see all of this stuff. Just then he sent a text... Him: 'tell baby her daddy loves her and you two sleep good.' Me: I will. She is moving all over the place and you could totally see it. (yes, maybe I rubbed it in on purpose) Him: That's awesome. Maybe I can see that sometime. Me: You shouldn't be missing all of this stuff. Makes me very sad. Him: Me too. Good night.
I know I shouldn't have gotten into dialogue, but I weakened. His last text seemed like he was pretty pissed. I thought about it. I bet he believes that I am keeping his child from him, but not for the reasons I really am. Not because of his actions or lack of actions or his drinking. I think he believes I am doing it just to piss him off.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!