Hi Betterman,

I broke another DB rule today but I feel it helps me. Obviously my best defense againts OM is to forget him. (tough at the moment because of what I've just learnt). Next line of defense is your advise.

Quote:
You know, one of the best things that you can do is to be there, but not be a nuisance. If you can find that fine line, use it. This will drive the OM NUTS and eventually he will show his true colors and FREAK about you being around. The key is to not be a pest.


I'm a bit up and down on a rollercoster, trying to level off at the moment.


Me:50
W: 49
T:20yrs
M: 14 yrs
D:11
2005 PA
2006: EA (2003 : 2007)
2007: April ILYBNILWY Aug PA, Sept Separate
2008: Feb Piecing
2009 Limbo
2011: Separated (same house)
2013: Divorcing