Also, as far as the C goes, maybe he needs to hear from someone else that sex is important in an M. Maybe the C would be able to help you guys come up w/ some new ideas that would help. If you are kind of limbo right now anyway, it's at least worth a shot.
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10