Thanks again guys.. I'm feeling better and better about things as time goes by.
mcol.. I'll try and catch up on your thread.
So.. W called yesterday to see if I could pick D5 up from Kindergarten and meet at her place. I was truly busy, so I told her I couldn't.. she pleaded several times, but I stuck to my guns. This is very important for me.. I need to be able to tell her no and stick with it. She ended up working whatever out.
Called to talk to the D's.. W was on her cell, so it was a little difficult talking to the D's. They were being crazy.. good crazy though.
W called back (I let it roll) a little while later. Had some silly questions and stated "there are a few other things I would like to talk to you about"
I called her back an hour later.. we talked about the silly questions (where D3's toys were.. etc) and then she said "I also liked the talks we've been having." I said "Me too.. we should do that more often huh?" she said "You think?" I joked back and said the same. She wanted to talk some more, but she was giving the D's their showers. I told her we could talk more thursday night (I'm watching D's for her while she takes her final).
So.. nothing huge, but it's a combo of being friendly while not caring what she's doing. I'm also acting "as if".. mostly because that's how I feel.
