Have you read Conway's "Men in Midlife Crisis" or his late wife's book about the same topic, but written specifically for the wife?
The mlc resources are very helpful too, but those two books really helped gel for me what the mlc-ers are going through, and because of that I do have much compassion for my H (not that I agree with what he is doing by any means).
Stay strong!
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