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Husband... try not to let your W's smarta$$ comments get to you. She's trying to get a reaction out of you. Just keep acting as if, easier said than done.

I think we're all kind of in the same boat except for Jarhead whose W is starting to come out of the fog.. hang in there bud!


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I just checked my myspace inbox. That message you sent me the other day has gone - weird. I know it was there because I replied.

Ya think your W has been on your myspace?

Saffie


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Hey husband..

Hope the rest of your night goes better.. Im sick of the moods too... My H had one yesterday for no apparent reason.. just to torment me...:)

tal


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Originally Posted By: tiredandlost
Hey husband..

Hope the rest of your night goes better.. Im sick of the moods too... My H had one yesterday for no apparent reason.. just to torment me...:)

tal


I tell ya tal it is one minute she is a bitch and the next she is nice. went out and spen $50.oo on MORE decoratins... Funny thing for those of you that know about my olive oil cake...
I did not want to throw it away I tasted it and it tasted fine to me soooo I left it on the counter and it is over half way gone,,,,,, I wonder who has been snacking,,,,,,

Safie I will try to send it agian. I don't think she has that is why I had to send it that way. Remember this is how I felt two days ago. If I re read it I may not send it...

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Hey Saffie I just sent it again,,

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husband,

need your read on new developments in my sitch...can you help?

Thanks


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Originally Posted By: mcol
husband,

need your read on new developments in my sitch...can you help?

Thanks


MCOL,

I will go look... Help???? I can't even help myself......

Ok update on my Mom's b-day.

W had to take Son to Foot Doctor (By herself Mark) at 3:00. My Mom's party started between 5:00 and 5:30. AFTER I redecorated the outside of the house. I got ready and it was 5:10 and W was not home yet. So I grabbed my cake and went to my Sister's house. When I arrived I got a call from my W. Asking where I was and what time was the party. I told her (Again). She said she would be over soon.
Party was ok. W and I did not talk much. (I kept thinking how she would have been the topic of the party if everyone knew what happened.)
Anyway suddenly the conversation at the party turned to about how this guy my Mom dated after my dad passed... How he used to always accuse my mom of fooling around. Electricity shot though the air I was across the room from my W and I looked up at her and she was looking at the person talking and saying things like "you are kidding".... "Oh my"..... "Really?"....I was looking at my W and I could tell she knew I was looking at her but did not turn her head.
Weird how this conversation would not even have fazed me a year ago. I would have been talking to my BIL about cars or something.....

Oh ya Saffie and YOYO,

Had a “talk” with NikB and agreed with her that the New Year’s idea I had was a short notice and if I did not get the results I was looking for it would ruin any chance of a positive PMA for Christmas….. So I am not going to do it…

Got a go
Be back soon

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Originally Posted By: husband
Weird how this conversation would not even have fazed me a year ago.

I know what you mean. It's similar to never realizing how many red cars there are in the world until you own one yourself.


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If you feel frustrated that someone isn't saying what you want to hear, the problem could be you. Why are you putting so many expectations on this thing? Don't push on farther with this agenda, because it is not based on anything real. It is based on a fantasy. That's not to say that some day it can't be real, because all signs point to great potential. But it has to happen in the right time frame. You have done everything you can. Right now, the ball is in their court.


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