A good freind of mine here in Iraq showed me this article. It shows that although you can be doing everything right as a guy, sometimes that isn't enough. It happenned to him too. He is a stereotype reversal. he is an Arican American male who is successfully raising three daughters, including critiquing their High school English papers via a web cam 4 hour beffore his 16 hour work days begin. His wife just left. Period. (not to slight the women here, but this article shows just how tough divorce is on men and men who are fathers inparticualry).
I felt I was the "unassuming 51-year old" that they interviewed. I wish the majority of people (not you guys) knew just how hard divorce is on men, and that the old stereotyp of the man "trading up" for the trophy wife is much overplayed.
