So, do people's Rs ever recover from this type of sitch? It seems to me that's really it, game over. Looking at the letter again it I think it's an invitation for them to go to a wedding.

Some people just seem to feel the need to jump from one R to the next, never dealing with her issues. Perhaps my W is one of them (that's if it wasn't an affair to begin with). It's a joke her talking about the fantasy of wanting to live alone to lead a single life - anything to get away.

The whole sorry mess makes me feel completely demoralized.

I would like to ask for some advice. Should I contact her about various D related activities but be very direct about what I want (I am usually polite and chatty, so this would be a bit of a 180 for me) - or - should I just stop all contact for a while and simply ignore her (which is also very tempting)?

Max


Me 36
W 37
Bomb (Easter 07)
Sep (WAW July 07)
"It's over" (end Oct 07)
T10.5 years, M2 (before bomb)