I have seen the theme that klm mentioned over and over on this board. I've been here for over a year, and usually most of the "success stories" occur when the LBS really declares they have moved on. Not a declaratory statement, but by their actions. You are still in the "deer in the headlights" phase, and we've all been there. It seems surrealistic. It is one of the cruelest emotional things one human being can do to another, but yet, here we are, promises aside.
The whole process of "detaching" is what it's about, and that takes 1. time 2. the proper mental outlook that you'll be OK no matter what, and you will....I've read your posts. You have your shi* in one sneaker.
By detaching, you will give that "I've moved on" impression, and if it doesn't work out, you'll be in a much better emotional place to move on. Hang in there. ARMY STRONG!
