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blew it a couple times talking about RE and my feelings


No R talk! <stern look>

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but did pick a good time to tell her what I need from her to move forward. I.e.: End affair, Say sorry and Try 150 percent just like I'm willing to do,


Ahem...another big no-no...knock it off! <another stern look>

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Shoot we even touched on the money topic and how broke we are with out fighting!


This is a very good sign! What did you do differently to contribute to a more calm and rational conversation?

Remember -- analyze what you are doing, check to see what's working, and toss what is not working.

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