My W and I have started to get into watching Heroes every night (have season 1 on DVD)
This is an extremely good sign! What did you do to contribute to this change in behavior?
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We still talk and it has still been calm talks...
Again, another very good sign! Are these R talks? If so, who is initiating them? In what ways are you participating in these talks?
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W has started to sleep in the same bed as me. It sorta just happend I guess... one night she came to bed and has slept there since.
Still no sex yet but I guess it will get to that point. Kissing has become more heartfelt.
This is huge, man, HUGE, I tell you! Don't rush things with you W at this point. Let her take the lead. She'll let you know when she's ready.
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she did by a little outfit to wear around me she kinda just showed it to me and that was that...Kinda of a tease if you ask me.
Dude, you need to read Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus. This too is a huge step. She's getting ready to let you know. She's checking to see if you are still interested. The trick here is to balance interest with detachment. You don't want to appear too eager; while at the same time she's wondering if you still accept her after all you two have been through. Never, never underestimate the power or the intent of a woman teasing you. It's part of our mating dance.
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I think she is saving it for around xmas.
Caution here. Keep your expectations low...and I mean really low, like zero. If you start projecting expectations, she'll interpret it as pressure and run for the hills. Remember, let her take the lead. Hard for you Martians, I know, but trust me.
I interpret this an extremely positive post, MW! Lots of very good signs. Remember that one of the core tenents of DR is analyzing what works and keeping at it. Pay attention to what you are doing differently, and check her responses. If she responds positively, keep it up. If there is no response, keep testing it. If there is a negative response, drop it like a hot coal!
Keep up the good work! Share with us what you are doing differently -- it helps you learn as well as others.
