Ok, crisis over. H sent me an email from work (he's never emailed me from work since he's been over there) and said that he is not mad, that he is not going to make a big deal about it and is just looking forward to getting home to the boys & me, he said it just surprised him when I made that comment. He also said I didn't need to make a big deal out of it either (as I apologized twice) -- in other words, just drop it and let's get on w/ it, which is what I was praying would happen.

Ok, 3 days to go if you even count Saturday. He gets home about 5:45 on Saturday, but we'll be so busy that I don't know if Saturday counts anyway \:\)

Another lesson learned the hard way. "Red, just keep your mouth shut; don't forget the 48 hour rule!" I think I was just so worried/scared about the whole thing b/c I made the comment w/o even thinking and it was absolutely unnecessary. I knew I was in the wrong in this instance no matter how I looked at it. I don't want to do this kind of thing ever again, let alone on a regular basis, or I know that would absolutely sabatoge our M.


Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10