Update: I want to Salavage my Marriage

[SuperDad]

Chris,
My opinion, worth what you paid for it:

Your wife is an alcoholic. She is using alcohol to mask all the other issues in her life. She is putting other people and herself at risk. She cannot just have one drink.

I do not know the best course of action, but I would think that your IC or alcoholics anonymous or similar groups could help with a strategy for addressing this.

She needs help!

SD