I couldn't imagine having to listen to that VM from your W but I think you're correct in saying that it is her angst and bitterness and probably even guilt that's causing those words.
Do not let her convince you that you are a disruption to those boys' lives.
Did she offer any insight into how calling ahead would be better?
I'm sorry to hear this from you. Hope you had a good day anyway.
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Me: 39/W: 37 D13-D11-S8 M/T 14/20
EA confirmed: 9/13/07 D-Bomb: 9/19/07 OM Gone since 12/18/07 W wants to fix marriage: 3/16/07