God Ann are you sure you're only 25? You seem to have a lot of wisdom for someone that young. You're right, if not her, someone else, eventually. I do want to blame someone and I can't seem to blame him very well. The "right" thing to do was to NOT bring OW into our lives. But, I believe and I have heard from numerous people that he saw an opportunity in her. Here was someone he probably knew he could move in with and would foot the bill, at least for a while. He can't really be on his own. He wouldn't be able to afford it and he can't handle money whatsoever. You'll see a lot about the money stuff in my previous posts and posts to come, I'm sure. I just hate that he is with someone else. I hate it. It eats me up inside. I always come back to that. Eventually, I'll get past it. Patience...hard to have.


M 5yrs
1st baby-girl born 6/18/08
Bomb: 10/13/07 OW - I was 6wks Prego
H Moved in w/OW: 11/2/07
D Final 07/10
OW had his baby 3/17/09-so her
Me, now - happier than I ever was with him