I spoke to my mother earlier this afternoon. MIL had phoned my mother as I had exposed what WAW was doing with S11 to MIL and FIL. Basically the beiotch MIL said that WAW and children would have been out on the street and OM was there with a house and some financial support.
He was divorced, adult children, own house and business. Yes I tried to change professions a year ago and I tried once but failed the interview process with Merrill Lynch as an Investment Consultant. I should have continued looking for a job until I was successful but I thought I would be alright in my career as a loan officer.
I just wished my wife could have knocked some sense into me, maybe by having a serious talk and maybe an ultimatum rather than uping and leaving.
Although I do not have a degree, I am not a stupid man. I have been in the Financial Services Industry in the UK as a Compliance Officer - A Regulation person making sure financial advisers were following the rules and regs of the industry and playing by the book.
I have had mortgage experience and thought that I could make good money in the US by doing mortgages. Well it is much harder than I expected and competition is tough. The mortgage market has been also going through a tough time.
Yes I know my mistakes and I should have changed earlier or not come over to the US in the first place. I am now paying dearly for those mistakes but I can not change the past.
It hurts everyday that I have lost my wife and seeing my children 24/7 over this and if wife, MIL/FIL or anyone else does not think that I don't 'beat myself up' over this then they are crazy or very insensitive.
