No, I did not take a photo. I should have done but I did n't.
We did the same when our children were young and they stopped biting but there was no call for it with S11. WAW said that he was being violent towards her??? Elliott is a typical 11 year old boy and is acting up because of the sitch but he is not 6 ft tall or 200 lbs. Just a normal 11 year old.
He winds up the other children and maybe my WAW but violent, I don't think so. She told me that she lost her temper and got angry. From what my son told me, she told S11 to get changed in to different clothes and she was in the way for him to do that. He asked her to move and she said for him to crawl under the dining room table to get around.
I do not know what to believe but she must be stressed. She keeps going on that she has them 24/7 but this is no different from when we were together except I was there after school most of the time and at weekends. She obviously does not have that now. I still see them at the weekend but OM is not the father and he is working or most probably not interested as a father would be.
Her decision to leave not mine.
She is different now and I do not like it or understand it but I will protect those children bugger the consequences as they say in England.
I just wish my wife had not turned in to this person. As you can see from my posts, for some reason, deep down, I still love her and miss her and wish we could work on a new R. She was a good women and mother once.
Does anyone know or believe that the OP's have a big effect on WAS's and the WAS's change based on the OP's character/personality/beliefs?
WAW does not go out much now, she does not drink (as OM does not drink), does not get to use the computer - internet now, has to work, etc. It does not make sense but they seem to want to do this for OM?.
I saw a lawyer Monday for some advice and he said that 80% of affairs end within the first 12 months. I know I am doing all the wrong things with DB but it makes me wonder.
