You think I'm not afraid? I'm petrified. But also confident that "eventually" it will happen. It's the in-between part that scares me senseless. How long would it take? A year? 10 years? more? And how many toads will I kiss before I find someone that has a great sex drive and also falls in love with me. The sex part is easy. The love part is the kicker.
Not true. Finding men who sexually desire you will be easy. Finding men who fall in love with you will be easy. Finding the will, energy and courage to take all the steps towards making a new commitment will be hard as hell for you and any middle-aged guy who has gone through his own version(s) of marital/relationship hell. It's not like when you are a kid and people aren't ready to settle down or commit. Most middle-aged people want relationships but they're scared as f*ck to get in another bad one.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
