Went to Dvce ct - horrible. Could not believe we were there - is this really happening to me, to us, to our family? NO decisin made on sep. agreement - financial doc not all in - waste of time and money. H and I acted like we did not even know each other after 20 yrs together. How do you cope? Cried all the way home. He gave me dirty looks too because he has been saying things to D - telling her bad things about me, my family, talking to lover on cell in front of her - asked him not to do it - he keeps on and D tells me and I dont even ask her - got court guardian sched. to talk to him as to what is appropriate for a 6 yr old - so now I'm the bitch.