Funny you should mention that. He is pissed that I want to go through the courts for child support. He wants to know why we can't work it out on our own. I'll tell you why. Because you WON'T live up to your obligation. I know that money is a HUGE motivator for him. Not that I want to hurt him (maybe just a little), but why should he get off easy for betraying me and breaking up our family? No way. He says that he doesn't want to get reamed by the court system, pay me a bunch of money so some can go to our child and the rest I spend on myself doing WHATEVER. He's an idiot sometimes. I wonder if he has to pay me Alimony also since I will be off for maternity leave. Hmmmm....


M 5yrs
1st baby-girl born 6/18/08
Bomb: 10/13/07 OW - I was 6wks Prego
H Moved in w/OW: 11/2/07
D Final 07/10
OW had his baby 3/17/09-so her
Me, now - happier than I ever was with him