I TOTALLY agree. Foo's W sounds an absolute nightmare and perhaps worried that her kids are going to frighten OM off. OM is her meal ticket at the moment - my feeling from what Foo says is that that is OM's major attraction and his W doesn't want to jeapordise that.
I suspect there are really big survival issues going on with Foo's W. If things hadn't been rocky job wise for Foo I bet this would never have happened like this.
Saffie
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength