We love ya! Maybe your W's crying is because she knows that your D's pain is being caused by what she's doing and feels bad. Maybe this will make her re-evaluate a few things and start to help D out a little? Just a thought.
I'm sure many more will jump on soon and give their thoughts.
SueS
ME: 42, H: 42, D6 Together: 18 yrs. Married: 15 yrs. Attended Retrouvaille - December 2009 Status: Working on it day by day