Let me get some of the questions answered. W had full blown PA, which I'm not really bothered by. Night before temporary hearing W breaks down and says she wants to come home, she loves, etc...Well we have the hearing at 9am, so we have to show and she is going to dismiss. She calls her sister, and tada, D back on. SIL is mad at W because MIL is paying for W's attorney and is paying a fortune. So they convince her she has to do it to protect herself. BTW, I still talk and email with them, but not about W, they do like me, but aren't really sure what happened. Next day sure enough she doesn't dismiss, and we argue the case. Her attorney is the biggest idiot in town, I win on every point, she can't take the house back, or make me sell, she gets no alimony, child support is 179 a month because we make the same and she has S one more day then I do a week. Joint custody.
So after that, I figured she was done. Well she kept trying to contact me. We eventually had a meeting and she said she didn't want the D but her sister is driving it. She wants to dismiss it, but said she will sign a settlement as it relates to the temporary order. So I have it too good to not go through with the D, try and reconcile and sign a prenup next time.
I don't think money is the issue, I have a much higher earning potential in the long run, but for now she makes a little less then me a month, but I'm so far in the red, I'm not sure how it keeps working out each month. So it's no like I'm money bags.
She talks about how great of a guy I am, and how immoral she is, an what a "hussie" she is, and she lost me cause she has no moral compass. Then will just curl up on the floor by the fire in a blanket and stay there all night, like a dog. I've actually thought I hope she doesn't psychologically pop.
