Well, Saffie, in the case of a persistent little biter who is too young to understand otherwise, then yes, I could see that. Even my S2 (who is now S3) had a problem with biting once in a while when S6 would aggravate him -- and I could see giving S2 a small nip to let him see what it is like (thankfully he seems to have gotten the message through a gold old occasional swat to the behind.)

But foo's son is 11 years old. What could possibly provoke a grown adult woman to bite her pre-teen child? There are certainly other ways to punish a boy that age and to communicate dissatisfaction with his behavior. To me that speaks of immaturity and fear on the adult's part -- fear from not being able to handle the situation properly on her own. Kids (and some dogs) tend to bite out of intimidation and fear.

<my 2 cents worth>


Me: 49
WAW: 47
S11, S7
Years Married/Together: 17/18
Bomb: 6/15/07
Separation: 7/6/07
D: 4/3/09

Real love is a decision.
Marriage is a commitment.