Just wanted to say that reading this thread and others like it makes me feel so sad. I am and maybe always will be LD relative to cac, but we're working on our M and forging a new path, together. Reading/posting on this board has played a big role in that, because it has helped me to open my eyes, and for that I'm grateful. How I wish that other LD spouses could gather the courage to come here too and open their own eyes to what they are doing....and what they are missing!

I'm sorry that so many of you are feeling unloved this holiday season.