WAW staying, I'm leaving to give her space..(2)

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W just called me at work. (I left a thumb drive at house and had left message earlier to bring it w/her when she brought kids to my apt tomorrow.)

W asked how I was doing/did last night. I said fine, keeping busy.

I asked her how she was doing, she said not well but she couldn't tell me.

I asked what's going on?

W said she really missed me! W wanted to have dinner tonite.

I said, come on over...you can come see me anytime you want after work (maybe not correct response but I was caught off guard). I don't 'turn into a pumpkin' until 8PM (IHD reference here).

W said she wants me back but still a little scared.

I said, give it some time...I hate to say it but you missing me makes me feel a little better (probably wrong thing to say but I was caught off guard). I want to get back together too, but I have to do this now for 60 days.

Call was cut short, I was working. W wanted me to call her later after work.

How do I handle this? I was thinking about telling W that I need to make sure that I do the things I need to do before I agree to anything. I was thinking about telling W that I want her to be sure that she knows what she wants first. This is a whole new level now that I was unprepared for this soon. Any suggestions?