Go for it, Heim -- you have nothing to lose. Even if she says no (which I doubt she will), just let it roll off your back. You're very capable and worthy of being love and finding women that desire you in many ways.
As for me, watching a movie at home with Master's degree/scientist/lindy hop girl tonight, and having hippy/masseuse girl and her S3 over for dinner with me and my kids tomorrow night. A good friend of mine pointed out to me that these two women are the two extremes of me, thus it is a lot of fun spending time with both of them. I'm satisfying all of me (the intellectual me and the free-flowing, fun me). Now, if I can just get the three of us to become "good" friends... (jk -- kinda)
(jk -- kinda)