She's folding. The question is what should you do now? That's up to you but I think you're going in the right direction. She's terribly afraid of the divorce but for you it's a plus. She's showing remorse, but is afraid to go any further perhaps due to her indecision. She's coming around, but at the last minute and not fully.
I personally think that your divorce is the right thing for you. If she still binds herself to you after that then it's a plus but keep things going forward. Sometimes it's after the fact that things improve.
