W still angry with me, but the intensity lessens

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Lan,

Looks like a breakthrough and a respite from DBing. But you can't take anything for granted given she's still probably very unstable. So you need to tread lightly.

Given what you have already told her about holiday plans, etc. can you somehow use these days/plans to your advantage? Would it be worth a phone consultation ($$$) with Michelle or some other way to refocus?

Have you considered how to deal with guilt, forgiveness, etc. You may want to look into Retrouvaille, Marriage builders or intensive counseling but be sure she's ready for it.

I hope things take a definite turn for the better!