UD - I did love my H pre-bomb. It is getting harder and harder for me to remember that though. I really had to think about your question.....
Peace - at this point, H is trying to make sure that he doesn't take a hit. That's why I need to figure out the property settlement soon....
Monday, I decided to GAL. I went shopping in another city with a group of friends. I asked H weeks before if he could pick up the girls from school and keep them for the night.
He went to see OW and his flight was delayed coming back. He was three hours late in picking up the girls. They were passed around at the school as each teacher they were passed to left. They finally ended up at cheerleading practice.
H never told me about this....the girls did. His family was out of town. The two people who would be able to get the girls and care for them in our absence were with me. What would he have done if his flight was cancelled?
I am furious that he was this irresponsible. But have I said anything? No. Have I documented it? You bet.
Just when I think he can't stoop any lower or be anymore self centered....
But, hey....at least he got to see his girlfriend.....