Out of the blue in a very heated D battle, W wants to dismiss the case. Well I'm now protected to well financially to not go through with the D. So W and I have talked and we agree the D should happen and then maybe we can live together and work things out.
Just in the last 2 weeks, we have been spending a lot of time together as a family. Now she is spending about half the nights at home, but sleeps on the couch. She appears very depressed and distraught. Hasn't fully committed to a R as of yet. I'm pretty much acting as if and going along. She even slept on the floor last night. No real physical contact except back and foot rubs, I give her. She is avoiding touching me.
What should I be doing, saying, anything? Any advice would help. I have a thread going over at newcomers, but thought I could use some DB'ers who are experts in piecing.
