I had a blow out this evening. I don't usually snoop and when i went to get the key to H's car as I wanted to use it I found his cell phone and I just picked it up and went through the 'messages In' box.
Now there was one message from a number i didn't recognise and it just said
"Please call me. K"
Well K was the name of the OW and without thinking I went downstairs and confronted him infront of the kids. He got cross and asked me what I was doing and why and I stormed off feeling sick inside.
when I got back H had calmed down and said that K was also the name of his Co. lawyer and he then logged on to his work emails and showed me one from her with her cell no. on the bottom.
I have calmed down but I still feel sick.
These things happen - bad memories click back in and you are so wound up about H coming home.
Just move on. I know exactly what it's like.
((((HUGS))))))
Saffie
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
