Since my H is truly a great guy I am only sometimes angry at him. I only recognize that I am when I find myself inexplicably angry with someone who has only committed a minor transgression. Then I basically can't find my H since his strategy is to be very "busy" if he senses tension. We have been down the road about sex a million times - he's stressed, tired, feel out of shape, of course he's attracted to me, no, he has no axe to grind with me, he's happy in our M, etc... blah blah blah. I've asked to commit to a schedule - the answer is "No, it isn't flexible or fun to do it that way." Increasingly, I don't give a crap. Then I do and I get tense before I even recognize it. Then I get a grip on myself and carry on.
Karen
Karen,
Didn't want to hi-jack LustforLife's thread although you two seem to be going through similar deals. Karen, this absolutely kills me inside. I avoid reading your posts like the plague...but eventually I'm drawn back into them and I get that same hurting feeling all over again - this is nothing against you..trust me! I have sooooo much respect for you and what all you go through. A part of me gets so f*cking angry about your husband...I'm sorry if that offends you. Funny as it may seem..through these message boards, I'm now able to think along the lines of an LD woman...I CANNOT say the same for an LD man..I can't f*cking do it! I have sooooo many questions I would love to ask this man.
You say you're is still attracted to me? Prove it! Take me in the bedroom and prove to me how much you are attracted to me.
You say you're happy in our marriage? Well isn't that special...last time I checked, there's usually 2 in a marriage and you want to know what would make me real happy in our marriage....{radio edit} me like you mean it.
You feel out of shape? ...come with me, sex is greeeaatt exercise..in fact I'll give ya a workout right now!
Schedules are not fun for sex??? And is not having sex since February at the top of your list for thrill rides....WTF!
I'm sorry Karen, none of these or my own personal frustrations are directed at you and I probably should not even submit this post but....I care!
