Thanks for taking the time to write that out.

Another Q for U \:\) :

what was the specific context of his coment about, "I'm not going to be the one to end this. It will have to be you."
?

Do you remember exactly what you said to him, that prodded him to reply like that?

My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D.
Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M.
3 wonderful sons caught in the middle