Long and bumpy road

[Startingover2]

Yoyo, thanks for the support. I find this board is my only true support these days. People that have been there and done that...

I hope I was coming across to Sue in a clear way. It was hard to put into words.

My H wants to be a father when he wants and only then. He isn't saying he doesn't want her, but really doesn't care to make a family life. He is now my exh. He bailed on our marriage and waffled back and forth until I got pregnant. Why am I so surprised that he is doing this now?