Since my H is truly a great guy I am only sometimes angry at him. I only recognize that I am when I find myself inexplicably angry with someone who has only committed a minor transgression. Then I basically can't find my H since his strategy is to be very "busy" if he senses tension. We have been down the road about sex a million times - he's stressed, tired, feel out of shape, of course he's attracted to me, no, he has no axe to grind with me, he's happy in our M, etc... blah blah blah. I've asked to commit to a schedule - the answer is "No, it isn't flexible or fun to do it that way." Increasingly, I don't give a crap. Then I do and I get tense before I even recognize it. Then I get a grip on myself and carry on.
