HB and Lin,

Thanks for all the support and advice. I am the type of peoson who does way better with confirmation and support. Many of these advices you (or others) have given me before and/or I have read them in books. But it helps SO MUCH more that you say it over and over again to me as a reminder. I guess I am the type who needs repetition :-) I guess that's why one of my sons always say, "Mom, you told me yesterday already!!!"

HB, just realize that I have been slacking a bit in confirming H's niceness (like not showing a positive response when he strokes my hair and such). Have to get back on that. Thanks for the reminder to work on bringing H closer to me.

Glad to hear that your H is coming out of the fog. I know you are strong and wise. Your H will see that he has a great wife and will get out of the fog eventually.


M 38, H 38, two sons
Met 20 years ago
Married 13 years
Bomb: Oct, 2006
DB: Started in Dec, 2006
H moved out for 3 weeks in Mar, 2007
H back home and piecing?