H said our M is "platonic"

[Dom R]

LFL:

you dont have a link or anything to "your thread". so for those who havent been "following your situation for a while", do you have a pointer?

also...

This would all be easier to figure out if he just flat out refused to have any sex with me. But he is still willing to have sex about once a month. Sometimes it is pretty good in fact. Well, he is attentive enough to get me off but when it's "his turn" he likes to have IC but he goes so fast it's over in like two minutes. I've talked to him so many times about just relaxing a bit, slowing down, etc and he never even attempts to do so.

Why get yourself all worked up, over "his" issue?
If he goes so fast, and it's all over quickly for him... and that's OK for him... doesnt seem like anything for you to be concerned about either.

Going only by what you have written in this new thread, seems like what you are saying is,
"when the two of you have sex, it's mostly all right from your side. it just isnt even close to frequent enough for you".

Is that accurate?