Hubby is coming over for Christmas Eve and Christmas (asked if he could sleep in Guest Bedroom, to be here for when the kids wake up). Since moving out in September and starting his feverish affair with OW, he does not touch me at all, even as a friend. He does not wear his wedding band, he says he doesn't love me, there's no hope, is afraid of trying to reconcile. He shows me no love at all, but is not hostile anymore. Just friendly. Knowing all of this, do I buy him a Christmas present? I'm afraid to look pressuring, expectant, pathetic....but if he surprises me with some token gift (which I seriously doubt but you never know) then it would look insensitive if I didn't have one to give him.
Advice? (Rollercoaster or Jack Three Beans?)
Me 41 H 47 D9 S3 M 16 yrs WAH Sep 07 PA Aug 07 12/07 Admitted A 1/08 C 1/15 H needs me 5/7/08 came home 7/08 We moved to MD 10/08 M bad again 11/24/08 fled to GA(OW),filed D 12/8/08 Back in MD 12/23/08 I countered 12/29/08 path back?
