so spouse tells me she "has plans" last night and I "don't need to worry"...IE: "I don't want to tell you what I'm doing because I'm ashamed, but I can't just disappear so I'll weasel around the facts"...I know damned good and well she went to a concert with her "friend" OW...but as Whatsis says: I don't give a flying F! I'm sure today she'll be ingratiating and friendly. She doesn't know I'm on to her whereabouts...chicke$hit.

Eventually it will come down to her choices and respect for me. But not today...because I don't give a flying F...Right Whatsis?

I have a shovel and I'm not afraid to use it.
Stubby