If the two people are motivated to do that than I agree. But if not, I don't think it's going to work.
LFL
Perhaps true, but sometimes one partner's motivation is enough. My W did not want to go to Retrouvaille. I figured it was worth a shot but didn't expect much. She (and me to a lesser extent), was just using it as a check off. Yep, did MC, did the retreat, ain't working, we are done. Oddly enough though it did open our hearts even though she was not motivated.
Gone the carvings and those who left their mark. Gone the kings and queens, now only the rats hold sway.
