So what do I do now? Just apologize & move on? I'm seriously so scared that he's going to want to leave again now. That was just so uncalled for on my part.
First things first....CALM DOWN!!!! Guys usually are not quite as sensitive about comments as much as you think that we are. He did say that he hoped you ran it over twice which leads me to believe that he is wanting to forget about the past as much as you would like too yourself.
I wouldn't make a big fuss over it, maybe a light little apology and then onto discussing plans for when he is home. Maybe make it appear that it was just a slight little passing thought about the past and with all the anxiety rushing through you about him coming home..you slipped! No biggie!!!
Or....Say "Honey, you must have been drinking more than you thought...I never said anything about the phone getting ran over! Are you ok? I mentioned that youngest son dropped the phone in his bowl of cereal so I had to get a new one...you need to come home and rest and I have the perfect B&B reservation set up for us to do so "
It's gonna be ok Red....please try to calm down. I can't imagine that he thinks it's just going to magically disappear from your thoughts...sh!t, what's it been? not even a year??? Come on ! This too shall pass {stole that from RJ }
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