H said our M is "platonic"

[LustForLife]

When it all comes down to it, haven't our LD partners said to us (either verbally, or by their actions), "I want a platonic marriage"?

I know you're right Hairdog. But for some reason when he actually verbalized it in those terms, it was the final nail in the coffin. And it wasn't just what he said but his implication that the rest of our M would just be more of the same. I sensed resignation in him to just settle for the M as is.
I just can't do it.

Reading this thread is painful. If I weren't in the middle of a self-imposed sexual moratorium, I'd be in agony.

Instead, just understand that I send you my sympathy and my hope for a better future.

Thanks Hairy.