I saw that article too and it hit home in many respects. What it shows is exactly how we feel, as fathers and husbands we know we are supposed to lead or families, be responsible for our families, etc. With all the responsibility comes a lot of stress and all too often walk away wives don't understand the stress we are under in just trying to provide for our families basic needs, housing and food.
What divorce does is takes away a core self definition for men. Sadly its the responsibility and our desire to have it that we use to define part or in some cases all of ourselves. Wrongly in some regards because ultimately we are failing to provide and be responsible for our own well being.
So guys remember we first have to take care of ourselves if we want to take care of those that we love.
If we really want to love, we must learn how to forgive. - Mother Theresa
