Still hopeful for some pleasant surprises

[SirPrizeMe]

We do not have a legal sep agreement.
I left the house because she was continuing to speak with OM, though she repeatedly promised she would stop.
I don't want to flip flop on this. I don't want to be back in the house if this continues.
If she wants OM, then I want my own place, and I'm pushing that.
It means we sell the house, she moves, kids all disrupted, etc.

On the surface, it seems that is the direction we are moving.

I get what you are saying about respect. I'll have to think about what you are saying. It sounds pretty provocative, which is not exactly what I want at this point.