I did talk to him last night and said I don't think it is right to be supporting her the way he did and taking her on a paid vacation. He surprisingly agreed that he needed to get his card back from her and things. I said even if you are living there you are not married to her you are still married to me and it is not good business for me to allow that. We are still financially involved and its not right. I said it was a bad example for his boys and hard on everyone. He did say that was the way it is. It was almost like he wanted to get caught or me to say something. He did say something tothe fact that relationships are not cracked up to be what they are supposed to be and when he got out of this one he wasn't sure he'd get into another..Ya right....He said it was one big mess that he shouldn't be doing what he is and he hated that I was alone. That it wasn't right....He might have just been talking. Rollercoaster ride once again. I do think that if we ever get the big D that it won't be way he thinks its going to be. He was down last night trying to do his accounting. But during this MLC he really thinks he needs to live the next 50years different which we all do thats why you don't learn all this valuable information til you are our age....I wish I knew what I do now when I was in my early 30's.

Hope everyone has a good day.

2430,

How are you? It is so good to hear from you...How is everything going it must be going well? Thank you for thinking of me. I miss writing you.

Thanks Mattie How are you doing? enough about me. Are you still going somewhere for christmas?

Thanks YOYO They still know how to get to us don't they!!!

Have a good day