Corri - Thanks for the hugs. And sorry to hear you are going through your own R problems. MJ is right, boys have cooties.
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I can really feel you right now. My kids are 8 and 6 too. This is just SO PA of your H. Crazy Eddie is spot on and I think his advice is perfect. By saying that you will be getting laid soon or that you will be moving out - whichever - you are rattling the cage big-time. You have to wake him up from his cozy little fantasy land where he gets to be "best friends" with his W without actually having to do anything. That is what SO annoyed me when my H back-pedalled he was doing the exact same thing your H is doing making YOU responsible for the break-up.
What's with all the people having major R/M problems lately? Sorry to see you are in a similar sinking ship. And I hear you about "rattling the cage" but I'm so over trying to make this M into something it isn't and never was. Is my goal just to salvage the M or is my goal to have a R that combines both love and sex together the way I think it should be. It's the latter at this point so I am seriously thinking of getting out. I'm too stressed to think about fine details until after the holidays though.
