You might want to mention that leaving you sexually frustrated with no intention to do anything to fix that combined with a demand not to get it elsewhere is also a "dealbreaker".
This would all be easier to figure out if he just flat out refused to have any sex with me. But he is still willing to have sex about once a month. Sometimes it is pretty good in fact. Well, he is attentive enough to get me off but when it's "his turn" he likes to have IC but he goes so fast it's over in like two minutes. I've talked to him so many times about just relaxing a bit, slowing down, etc and he never even attempts to do so. I'm not sure why that is. Maybe just sexual immaturity or something. He shows no interest in blowjobs or anything else. It's all very "vanilla." I'm not motivated by vanilla anymore. At this point I'm looking for chocolate.
