Your not draining me! What on earth gave you that idea?? The way I have been living is draining me. I know it's draining Rich too. Guess someone needs to put on the big girl panties (no sg, not granny panties ) and help us both out!
I just hope it didn't scare you or give you any doubts with your situation.
You are wearing the plain wedding band because it takes you back to the beginning of your marriage when all was good.
GO TO THE ART SHOW AND DINNER!!! OMG! You'll have a blast. And third wheels....are so last year!! Have fun, stop with the guilt! I am just a few years older than you bear..but I was your ageish when I began this journey. The things I did not do out of guilt or hope that he would recognize...I wish I had did them now! No no no...not because my journey is almost over, because it would have SHOWED HIM that I do have a life, that I am a desirable person to others, that I can survive without him! You are afraid to make these moves as he will think your ok. But thats not what he will think. DO IT! Do the unexpected!
Never stop being the caring person you are. As if you could Don't let him take that from you. Again, I will say to you. You have a wonderful chance. You have grown so much bear..I know it's hard for you to see, but not for others.
Whew..thanks sg. I wanted to tell her to look at the accounts but not for snooping purposes bear, when you are ready, take a look. Like I said, you have to protect yourself, this will also be protecting him.
Hey! If you come thisa way in January....you'll get that hug
Thanks for dropping by my world...LOL Ugh! Were a tough lot over there.
HUGS
Jeanette
Change the Policy. Allow PM's Free all of us.
Also some new and improved emoticons would be nice!